Hi, I’m Nini!
And there was a moment where I thought: if this is what life looks like, I don’t want it.
I was really good at pretending.
On the outside? Fine. Totally fine. Smiling, showing up, acting like nothing was wrong. On the inside I was drained, lost and honestly, pretty hopeless. A relationship ended and my whole life fell apart with it.
And when it did, I had a choice. Rebuild myself. Or accept that this miserable, sucky life is just… what life is.
For a while, I almost chose the second one. Because I genuinely believed:
I don’t deserve better. This is just how it is. Life just sucks.
I was anxious, overthinking everything, people-pleasing everyone around me. Just living a mediocre, sucky life and slowly accepting that nothing was going to change.
Until I decided I was done.
Not dramatically. I didn’t wake up one day with a plan. I just got to a point where I was so tired of feeling this way that something in me said: no more.
So I started looking for help. And what I found was… not great. Everything was either a $1,000 coaching program with a big commitment, or some super complicated process that felt overwhelming before I even started. I didn’t need that. I needed something simple. Affordable. Something I could do at my own pace, when I was ready, without it taking over my whole life.
That thing didn’t exist. So I built it.
Here’s what’s different now.
I’m a different person. And I mean that literally – the old me is unrecognisable to me now.
I stopped procrastinating on the life I actually wanted. I stopped caring what people think – genuinely, not just as something I tell myself. I’m so sure of myself now that it still catches me off guard sometimes. I’m in an amazing relationship. I go after what I want without second-guessing myself every step of the way.
The girl who thought she didn’t deserve better? She’s gone. And if I got from there to here, I know you can too.
That’s why Self healings exists.
Because life isn’t supposed to feel like what you’re living right now – if it doesn’t feel right, it’s not right. There is more. So much more. And you can actually have it.
Everything here is built around workbooks because you deserve more than a blog post you read and forget. These are real tools you actually work through, keep, and come back to whenever you need them. You pick what you need. You work through it at your own pace. No $1,000 price tags. No complicated commitments. No pressure.
And if you ever need help figuring out where to start – I’m always here.
If you’re where I was…
I want to tell you what I needed to hear back then:
Life isn’t this. There is so much more waiting for you. And your dream life? It’s not as far away as it feels right now.
You don’t have to figure it all out today. You just have to take one step. Start here.